Memphis and the Soul of the South
- The Detour Dreamer

- Sep 23, 2024
- 8 min read
Updated: 2 days ago
Some road trips are about scenery. Others are about food. This one was about stories.
Our journey through the American South began in Memphis before winding through Mississippi on our way to New Orleans. Along the way, we walked through Graceland, stood where Martin Luther King Jr. spent his final moments, followed the roots of the blues, and visited places that shaped the Civil Rights Movement.
It wasn't the loudest trip I've ever taken. It wasn't the most adventurous either. But it was easily one of the most meaningful. Between barbecue, blues guitars, roadside museums, and long stretches of quiet highways, this road trip reminded me that some destinations don't impress you with dramatic landscapes; they stay with you because of the stories they tell.
What Started This Southern Adventure?
Until this trip, the American South was a complete blank spot on my travel map. Then I became friends with a few proud Memphians. Every conversation somehow circled back to the same topics: Elvis, barbecue, blues music, and sentences like, "You haven't really seen America until you've been to Memphis." They offered to show me their hometown before we continued all the way to New Orleans, and suddenly my first Southern road trip was born. Looking back, I can't believe I waited this long.
Graceland: Stepping Inside an American Legend
You don't have to be an Elvis superfan to appreciate Graceland. You just have to appreciate cultural icons. Walking through Elvis Presley's home feels surprisingly... normal. Sure, it's a beautiful Colonial-style mansion, but it's much smaller than I expected. His living room isn't enormous. The dining room feels surprisingly intimate. It almost feels less like visiting a celebrity estate and more like visiting someone's family home that accidentally became one of the most famous houses in America.
Then you reach the Jungle Room. And suddenly everything makes sense. Green carpet climbs the walls. Tropical furniture appears everywhere. There are carved wooden animals, waterfalls, oversized furniture... and absolutely no interior designer saying "maybe tone it down a little." It's wonderfully ridiculous. The downstairs TV room with three televisions playing simultaneously is equally unforgettable. Apparently Elvis believed one screen simply wasn't enough.
Outside, the visit continues through the gardens, stables, racquetball building, and finally the Meditation Garden, where Elvis, his parents, and his brother are buried. It's surprisingly peaceful. Across the street, the museum complex is almost as impressive as the house itself. Classic cars. Stage costumes. Gold records. Private airplanes. If Graceland tells you who Elvis was at home, the museum reminds you how enormous his career really became.
💡 Pro Tip: Don't rush Graceland. It's easily a half-day visit and a full day if you enjoy music history. Buy your tickets > here.

Back in the heart of Memphis, there was one more Elvis pilgrimage I simply couldn’t resist: The Arcade Restaurant, the city’s oldest restaurant and, apparently, one of the King’s favorite places to eat. Naturally, Elvis had his own preferred booth and, naturally, I had to find it. He reportedly always sat in the same spot, which means there is now a perfectly legitimate tourist tradition.
I stopped for lunch, found the Elvis booth and took the obligatory photo. It’s a fun little stop, especially if you’re already downtown — and a much more charming way to get your Elvis fix than simply buying another souvenir with his face on it.
Downtown Memphis: Two Very Different American Stories
Just a few minutes from Graceland sits another Memphis landmark, but this one belongs to a very different chapter of American history: the Lorraine Motel.
Unlike Graceland, nobody comes here for entertainment, nostalgia, or a glimpse into celebrity life. People come because history changed on this spot. On April 4, 1968, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated while standing on the balcony outside Room 306. He was just 39 years old.
Today, the Lorraine Motel is preserved as the centerpiece of the National Civil Rights Museum, which tells the much larger story of the American Civil Rights Movement, from slavery and segregation through the struggle for equality and the events surrounding King's assassination.
Unfortunately, I didn't have enough time to properly visit the museum itself. And I absolutely will return to Memphis to do it properly. But even standing outside the motel was incredibly moving. The rooms have been preserved much as they were, the vintage cars remain parked below, and a wreath marks the balcony where King stood that evening. The whole scene feels almost frozen in time.
It's also one of those rare places where the atmosphere changes you before you've even walked through the door. The jokes stop. The camera comes down. Conversation gets quieter. Memphis has plenty of places where you can celebrate music, food and larger-than-life personalities. This is the place that reminds you why history matters. And next time, I'm giving the National Civil Rights Museum the time it deserves.
Crossing the Mississippi River
I’d seen the Mississippi River in countless movies, books, songs and photographs, but finally standing beside the Mighty Mississippi in Memphis felt surprisingly satisfying. And then we discovered you can actually walk across it.
Big River Crossing is a nearly mile-long pedestrian and bicycle walkway built alongside the historic Harahan Bridge, connecting downtown Memphis with West Memphis, Arkansas. It opened in 2016 and gives you spectacular views of the river, the Memphis skyline and the Arkansas floodplains.
But our crossing came with considerably more ceremony than most people probably get. Our very good friends had clearly decided that simply walking into Arkansas was not sufficiently official, so they organized a little ceremony for us on the bridge. There we were, standing over the Mississippi, being formally welcomed into Arkansas and presented with an Arkansas Traveler Certificate. And yes, this is actually a real thing: the State of Arkansas has an official Arkansas Traveler Certificate for qualifying out-of-state visitors, complete with the state seal and signatures of the Secretary of State and Governor.
Our friends turned the whole thing into a hilarious little production, complete with the certificate, and the ceremony. It was so much fun and incredibly well done ; exactly the kind of unexpected travel moment that ends up being more memorable than whatever was actually on the itinerary.
Mississippi: Where the Blues Was Born
Mississippi doesn’t scream tourism. It whispers history.
Once you leave Memphis behind, the landscape changes dramatically. The highways stretch out through endless cotton fields, tiny towns, weathered buildings, and long, impossibly straight country roads. It’s quiet, almost too quiet, and somewhere between the fields and the Delta horizon, it starts to sink in: this is where one of America’s most influential musical traditions was born. The blues didn’t emerge from concert halls or fancy recording studios. It grew out of the realities of life in the Mississippi Delta: work, hardship, love, loss, faith, and survival. Music became a way to communicate, to endure, and eventually to tell stories that words alone couldn't quite carry.
One of the best places to understand that story is the B.B. King Museum and Delta Interpretive Center in Indianola. The museum does an excellent job of telling the story of Riley B. King, the Mississippi farm boy who became the world-famous B.B. King.
The museum is modern, beautifully designed, and surprisingly immersive. It gives you a sense not just of the musician, but of the world that shaped him.
And then there’s the final stop: B.B. King’s grave, located beside the museum. It’s simple, quiet, and completely fitting. No giant Hollywood-style monument. Just the resting place of one of the men who helped put the Mississippi Delta on the musical map.
There was something strangely satisfying about standing there after driving through the very landscape that inspired so much of his music.
A Crossroads and a Legend
A little farther south sits one of the most famous intersections in American music history: the meeting of Highways 49 and 61. It looks remarkably ordinary. Two roads. A sign. A whole lot of Mississippi Delta landscape.
And yet, according to one of the most enduring legends in blues history, this is where guitarist Robert Johnson supposedly met the Devil and traded his soul for extraordinary musical talent.
Did it actually happen? Probably not. But honestly, once you've driven all the way to the crossroads, you're taking the photo anyway.
There’s something wonderfully American about the story: mysterious crossroads, supernatural bargains, a guitar, and one of the greatest blues legends of all time. Whether you believe Johnson actually made a deal with the Devil or simply happened to become an extraordinarily gifted musician, the legend has become inseparable from the place. So naturally, we stopped.
Some legends deserve a photo op.
Money, Mississippi
This was not the easiest stop on the trip. Nor was it supposed to be.
The tiny town of Money, Mississippi, looks almost impossibly quiet today. But in 1955, it became connected to one of the most horrific and consequential chapters in American history.
During the summer of that year, fourteen-year-old Emmett Till, who had traveled from Chicago to visit relatives in Mississippi, was accused of offending a white woman at a local store. Days later, he was kidnapped, brutally tortured, and murdered. His killers were acquitted by an all-white jury, despite later admitting their involvement. The verdict shocked the nation, and the photographs of Till's mutilated body helped expose the brutality of racial violence in America. His murder became one of the defining catalysts of the modern Civil Rights Movement.
Today, there isn't much here. A historical marker. Quiet roads. Cotton fields stretching toward the horizon. And that's precisely what makes the place so unsettling. There are no grand museum walls or dramatic exhibitions to tell you what happened. You're simply standing in the landscape where it happened, trying to reconcile the peaceful scenery around you with the terrible history beneath it. Sometimes history isn't found inside a museum. Sometimes it's standing silently beside an empty road.
You can learn more about Emett Till by visiting the Chicago History Museum > here.
You can also watch the movie "Till" (2022) - the trailer is > here.
One Last Stop Before Louisiana
Before crossing into Louisiana, we spent the night in the small town of Greenwood, Mississippi and somehow managed to squeeze a little Hollywood into our increasingly history-heavy road trip. Movie buffs might recognize Greenwood as one of the main filming locations for The Help (2011). After several days immersed in blues history and the Civil Rights Movement, it was fun to wander around town and revisit some of the movie's recognizable locations.
And then there was our hotel: The Alluvian. Our evening at The Alluvian turned out to be one of those unexpectedly perfect travel nights. We started with cocktails in the hotel’s lounge, where a singer was performing live blues in the background. Then we moved on to dinner at Giardina’s, the historic restaurant housed inside The Alluvian. Founded in 1936, Giardina’s has that old-school Delta elegance, with dark wood, intimate booths, and a menu built around steaks, seafood and Italian favorites.
According to local lore, Emma Stone, Viola Davis, and much of the cast stayed here during filming. Did I sleep in the exact same room as Emma Stone? Probably not. Will I continue to tell myself that I did? Absolutely.
📍Book a room at the Alluvian Hotel > here.
At this point in the road trip, I had crossed state lines, chased blues legends, stood at historic sites, and driven through enough cotton fields to last a lifetime. A little imaginary Hollywood connection felt completely justified.
Trip Debrief
👍🏼 Worth The Detour
Graceland absolutely lived up to the hype, but the biggest surprise was Mississippi. The B.B. King Museum, the Civil Rights sites, and the quiet roads connecting them turned this into much more than an Elvis road trip. I came expecting rock 'n' roll and barbecue. I left with a much deeper appreciation for Southern history.
⏱️ Time To Do It Right
I'd recommend at least three days for Memphis and northern Mississippi, although five would be even better if you enjoy museums and music history. The region isn't exactly on the way to anywhere, so it works best as part of a larger road trip. Pair it with Nashville to the north or New Orleans to the south, and suddenly you've got one of America's most rewarding drives.
🪫 How Tired Was I, Really?
Surprisingly refreshed. Between museums, music landmarks, and leisurely road trips, this wasn't exactly an endurance challenge. My biggest workout was getting back into the car after convincing myself we'd "just stop for five minutes." The South has a dangerous habit of turning every historical marker, barbecue joint, and roadside attraction into a completely justified detour.







